Category: Letters

  • Reflections on My First Year of Entrepreneurship

    It’s been just a little over a year since I signed out of Slack and left the corporate world to become an entrepreneur / independent wealth manager. 

    In that time, I’ve comes across so many other people who have left their 9-5 to start something of their own, or are actively thinking about it, so I wanted to share some reflections on how these first 365 days have gone.

    Founder Nathan Kangpan working at desk.
    Welcome to Kangpan & Co.’s Global HQ

    But first, thank you to all of you who have entrusted me with your family’s financial well-being. It’s been an incredible first year in business and I’m really excited about the upcoming services I’m building out for you in Year 2.

    Here are eight thoughts on the last 365 days.

    1. I didn’t know what I was so afraid of.

    I spent years unsure of whether I had what it took to build my own book of business from scratch. I was no stranger to getting clients in my prior roles. But I was never sure if it was me, the company, or something else that landed those relationships. I didn’t know if anyone would want to work with me if I struck out on my own, especially since I was shifting industries. 

    Turns out, there was nothing to fear. People remember when you treated them well and did what you said you’d do. 

    2. I miss working with people. 

    I see and talk to clients all the time. But I’m running a solo operation on a day-to-day basis. I don’t have anyone to bounce ideas off of, celebrate wins with, or even just message a meme to on Slack. The lack of this collaborative energy is probably the thing I miss most about leaving corporate.

    I’m on track to make my first hire early next year and excited to have a daily partner again (and someone to send fun gifs to).

    3. I got to be a big part of my kids’ lives while they were young.

    My kids played a big part in me leaving corporate. There were so many days when I wouldn’t see them at all because I had to leave early and get back late. I was missing all the important moments in their life like my daughter’s first steps.

    Working from home for myself has meant no more commute so I could be around for the morning and evening routines. I’ve seen so much more of my kids’ personalities just by physically being around more and feel a lot closer to them as a result.

    I also got to have lunch with my kids most days instead of eating an overpriced salad bowl at my desk in the office. They lived off my grilled cheese for nearly six months until they moved on to Sheila’s egg wraps.

    4. I miss the paycheck

    I left at a C-level. I knew I wouldn’t be seeing those kinds of numbers hitting my bank account every 2 weeks for a long time. 

    And I was right. 

    Although I’ve been pleasantly surprised by the number of people who signed up to work with me so early on, my revenue is nowhere near what my paycheck was. What would I do with hundreds of thousands in extra income each year? A new car to replace my 2015 Jeep Wrangler would be nice.

    5. I feel more in control of my time than I did for years. 

    My calendar used to be packed with all kinds of meetings I wanted no part of. But I had to go anyway because of the role I had. The more senior I got the less in control I felt over my schedule.

    I now have 93.2% control over my time. Time sensitive stuff still comes up occasionally for clients, but it’s work I want to do and it has a tangible impact on their life. I pick which clients I’ll take on, how I want to organize my day, etc. 

    6. I don’t miss corporate.

    It was a great first part of my career and I do miss a lot the people I worked with (though some of the ones I liked most are clients now). But I did it for long enough. I didn’t need to live the same work year 20 more times. I haven’t personally met someone who left corporate who regretted it. A few had to go back out of necessity, not desire. 

    Never say never, but right now I cant picture myself ever wanting to go back.

    7. I like the sense of meaning I get from my work now.

    I ran technology, analytics, and marketing teams in the corporate world. We worked with big Fortune 500 companies to help them get even bigger. The core of what we did was mostly fun and intellectually interesting. But I would hardly call it meaningful work in most cases. 

    I now help people design and then build the lives they want to live. The strategies I develop and the actions I take go directly towards helping people retire earlier, fund their kids’ education, start the business they’ve been dreaming of, and so much more. I’ve found I really like working on the personal scale more than the corporate scale.

    8. Starting my own thing has been harder than I thought but also far more rewarding than expected.

    It takes a lot to get a small business going. And I don’t just mean selling the work and getting clients. Bookkeeping, legal, compliance, new vendors, etc. all take so much mental bandwidth early on. 

    But each step and decision feels like it’s actually mine. And my business feels more and more like a reflection of who I am and how I want to engage with the world. Cheesy? Yes. But those of you who run your own firm know what I mean. It becomes a part of you.

    What’s your experience been like?

    I love meeting people on the entrepreneurial path. Whether you’re already running a business or thinking about starting one, feel free to reach out to connect through my email below.

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    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
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    Kangpan & Co. is a flat-fee financial advisory firm specializing in helping mid-career professionals navigate the career, family, and financial tradeoffs that come with this stage of life. This content is for educational purposes only and is not financial, legal, or tax advice. Consult a licensed advisor for help with your individual situation. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions discussed in our content. Past performance is no guarantee of future results.

  • My $200,000 Dog

    My family’s been wanting a dog for a long time. We’ve been visiting the dog rescue events around us for months looking for the dog that felt right. 

    We knew Moo Shu was the one as soon as we saw her. So we filled out the application on the spot and Moo Shu came home with us this past weekend.

    She’s going to cost me at least $196,799.

    My wife and daughter holding our new dog for the first time.

    I’m an optimizer by nature and a financial advisor by vocation. I think about everything in terms of time value and opportunity costs.

    My first instinct is to quantify decisions to understand their impact on our finances. 

    One of the first things I looked up was “How much does a Border Collie eat”? The median answer? About $80 worth of dog food per month. For 15 years.

    We like to travel as a family so the next thing on the list was, “How much is pet sitting per day”? A lot.

    On and on it went as I pulled together my cost model. 

    The total out of pocket costs added up to tens of thousands on my spreadsheet over the years. But the real punch in the financial gut was the time value of those costs. If all those costs had instead been invested along the way in a diversified portfolio earning 8.0% a year? The number in 15 years ends up just shy of $200,000.

    Ouch. 

    What would I like to do with $200,000 in 15 years? A dark green Porsche would be nice to drive around in with Sheila once the kids are out of the house.

    It’s taken me years to get past what the numbers on a spreadsheet mean. Getting married and having kids has allowed me to see life in more than just financial terms and to stop delaying the things that add texture to living. 

    As I wrote about in the time value of life, opportunity costs don’t just apply to money. It also applies to life experiences that are forgone in pursuit of said money.

    So what was Moo Shu’s true opportunity cost?

    I would have missed seeing the biggest smile ever on Sheila and Remy’s faces the first time they hugged Moo Shu. 

    I wouldn’t have the next 15 years of Moo Shu resting her head on my lap while Sheila and I re-watch Friday Night Lights or Schitt’s Creek year after year.

    BTW, if you’re wondering about Moo Shu’s name, we wanted to call her Moo because she’s patterned like a dairy cow. But that felt too short so we did a play on words and named her after the dragon in Mulan.

    If you liked this piece, check out:

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
    [email protected]

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    Kangpan & Co. is a flat-fee financial advisory firm specializing in helping mid-career professionals navigate the career, family, and financial tradeoffs that come with this stage of life. This content is for educational purposes only and is not financial, legal, or tax advice. Consult a licensed advisor for help with your individual situation. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions discussed in our content. Past performance is no guarantee of future results.

  • The Four Money Personalities I See in High Earners

    How a person handles their money says a lot about who they are, what they believe in, and their overall approach to life. 

    I manage money for high earners and multi-millionaires. I see four consistent money “archetypes” across this group:

    • The Compounder
    • The Cruiser
    • The Spender
    • The Independent

    There is no right or wrong archeteype. You can be happy or miserable regardless of which type you fall into. The key is being aware which one you are and managing your life and finances in a way that aligns with the personality.

    For example, the generic financial advice to get a job and then save 10% a year until 65 works well for a Cruiser but will feel heavily restrictive and out of alignment with an Independent

    People can have aspects of multiple archetypes, but there is usually a dominant one that drives life and financial decisions. 

    Let’s get into each.

    The Compounder

    Compounders view money as a game to be beaten. The highest score at the end wins. They’re constantly thinking about investing, starting new businesses, etc. It doesn’t matter if they have $3m or $20m in assets. Their goal is to at least 10x whatever it is they have now (and then 10x again after that).

    The purpose of money is to get more money. 

    A lot of very successful business owners and entrepreneurs are in this group. Done well, it leads to a life of heavy intellectual engagement and a prominent role in the community creating jobs and building the local economy. Taken to extremes you end up with Ebenezer Scrooge. You build a huge cash pile but end up having no one to share it with. You prioritized the money over relationships with your kids, friends, or your community.

    Financial strategies developed for this group have a heavier weighting towards business management, tax and estate planning, and unique investment access. 

    The Cruiser

    These are the people where money seems to have no intrinsic value outside of supporting daily living needs. These are the millionaires you read about in popular financial media who still go to their 9-5 jobs, drive a Toyota and shop at Costco. 

    Money is a byproduct of living.

    They’re generally content with what they’re already doing in work and life and can’t envision doing something else. So they keep going down the same path year after year. Work a reasonable amount at job they mostly enjoy. Spend quality time with family and friends outside of work. Their brokerage and retirement accounts grow larger every year but they barely notice. 

    They don’t think about money that often and are generally content with what they have. 

    This is where the standard financial playbook works well. Get a good job you like and stay till 65+. Contribute to your 401k along the way, don’t take on too much debt, and have a simple estate plan in place.

    The risk with this group is their money ends up creating problems down the line for other people. Not everyone is passive when it comes to money. Their children could end up fighting over the way the state distributes everything. Or they pass away and their husband gets remarried and a significant portion of the estate ends up going to the new wife’s adult children instead of their biological children.  

    The Spender

    These are the people who see money as something to be enjoyed. You can’t take it with you, so spend it while you’re alive. 

    This doesn’t always mean buying extravagant things for themselves. The money can go to helping loved ones like covering the down payment for their children’s first house or donating to causes they believe in.

    Money is what enables the good life.

    But we all know the extreme versions of this. The spendthrift who takes on too much debt to fund a life they can’t afford and ends up broke or working well past 70 to support themselves.

    I don’t see this version too often in my practice. Most of the people I work with are self-made through years of disciplined saving and investing rather than inheriting sudden windfalls. The muscles to build and maintain wealth have been well-established. 

    Budgeting and asset bucketing plays a bigger role for Spenders than other archetypes. They often need a bit of help managing the cash inflows and outflows in a way that maximizes life enjoyment while mitigating the risks of running out of funds.

    The Independent

    The final group are the ones that treat money as an employee. They want their money to work for them and typically have a goal of building up their portfoio to support their desired lifestyle in perpetuity.

    Money is infrastructure to this group.

    These are the people who like to build passive income, think a lot about financial independence, and ultimately want to retire from the “have to work for money” world in order to spend their time pursuing their passions and have control over their time.

    If you push too hard here you get the extreme versions of FIRE. 

    People who claim money isn’t important, but the only thing they think or talk about is the marginal cost of everything and how to reduce it. Their entire life and personality ends up being about money. Life gets put on hold while they build up their nest egg. They miss out on lots of experiences and potential friendships along the way due to their excessive frugality.

    Financial strategies for this group focus heavily on tax / fee optimization, cashflow management, and budgeting.

    I’m 80% Independent and 20% Compounder

    The interesting thing is about all these groups is that most people don’t know which they’re going to fall into until they’ve started building their wealth. 

    I used to think I was primarily a Compounder. That the point of money was to beget more money. I wanted to have the most of it among my family and friends.

    But once I started earning enough to start building up my savings and investments I realized I was actually much more of an Independent. It gradually became more important to me to be able to balance work, life, and family on my terms rather than getting a high score.

    I started aligning my financial goals to creating a portfolio that could support our living expenses, giving myself the freedom to build a financial advisory practice the way I wanted to without having to sacrifice my vision for the sake of rapidly building revenue.

    Which are you? If you’re not sure, feel free to reach out and I can help you figure out your money personality and how best to align your life and finances to who you are.

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    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
    [email protected]

    Most financial advice is generic. Mine isn’t. Get an email every other week with real strategies and stories from my work with mid-career professionals. Free, no paywall.

    Kangpan & Co. is a flat-fee financial advisory firm specializing in helping mid-career professionals navigate the career, family, and financial tradeoffs that come with this stage of life. This content is for educational purposes only and is not financial, legal, or tax advice. Consult a licensed advisor for help with your individual situation. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions discussed in our content. Past performance is no guarantee of future results.

  • The Four Disadvantages of Trump Accounts

    Summary

    We have young kids. I manage money professionally. I’m not planning on opening a Trump Account for either of them. 

    Trump Accounts are designed to serve a specific purpose. To help your child get a head start on saving for their retirement. Sounds good right? 

    Here are the disadvantages in how these accounts are designed:

    • Your child takes control of the funds when they turn 18
    • It detracts from college funding
    • It’s an inefficient way to fund your kids’ retirement
    • Life’s big expenses are front-loaded 

    Your child takes control of the funds when they turn 18

    I’m going to give an 18 yr-old $187,251 on their birthday and see what they do with it. Good idea, right?

    That’s what $5,000 a year for 18 years into a Trump Account earning a hypothetical 8% a year grows to. And then the kids legally get the keys to the playground on their 18th birthday.

    Sure, it’s technically a retirement account with a 10% penalty if you withdraw before 59.5.

    I’m not convinced every 18 yr-old thinks about the $18.7k penalty when they’re looking at the $170k+ payday they get to keep. (And yes, they forgot to account for taxes on emptying the account so now they owe money).

    Every account and planning strategy has pros and cons. Funds growing tax-free is definitely a Pro of the Trump Accounts. My kids automatically taking control of the funds at 18 feels like a big Con.

    It detracts from college funding

    I’m guessing that if you’re the type of parent who has read this far, you already have colleges in mind that you want your kids to go to. Even if college is almost two decades away.

    According to the Education Data Initiative1, the all-in, four-year cost of a private, non-profit college degree is $226,512. And costs have been growing at 4.04% a year. 

    If trends continue, then 18 years from the now the all-in cost will be $462,059. 

    529 plans were created to help with this immense cost. Like Trump Accounts, the contributions grow tax-deferred until you need them.

    But unlike Trump Accounts:

    • Contributions going in are tax deductible in many states
    • Funds used for qualified expenses are not taxed on their way out

    If your state has tax deductions for 529 contributions and you plan to send your kids to college, max out your college savings first before putting money in the Trump Accounts.

    It’s an inefficient way to fund your kids’ retirement

    I’m 40. Sheila probably won’t appreciate me saying exactly how old she is so I’ll just leave it at she’s slightly younger than me. 

    Our eldest is 4. By the time she’s 59.5 and can start accessing funds in a Trump Account without penalties, I’ll be 95.5. According to the CDC2, the average life expectancy of a male born in the US is 76.5. females are 81.4.

    Maybe we make it two decades past the average person. But odds are we won’t. 

    We plan on leaving money for our kids. 

    Anything in a Roth they can tap tax-free even if they’re not 59.5 (as long as the account has been open at least 5 years). 

    Anything in a taxable brokerage account transfers to them essentially with capital gains reset to 0. That means all those funds will be available to them tax-free when they transfer over if they need it. More than likely before they’re 59.5.

    If our daughter (or son) had a Trump Account, any gains over the amount that had been contributed would be taxed at her marginal income rate when she starts using the funds.

    Life’s big expenses are front-loaded 

    Let’s say you’re 38 right now. You’re married and have two kids. You both have good, but not quite S-tier income from jobs you enjoy (more or less). You work in marketing. Your wife is a physician.

    You’ve both been diligently saving for retirement and have built up about $1m between your workplace retirement plans. But that doesn’t help you right now.

    You’re trying to figure out how to pay for $42k a year in combined K-12 private school tuition while still getting to go on your twice-yearly family vacations. 

    What would be more helpful? 

    A. Your parents decided to help you fund your retirement when you were a child. You have an additional $750,000 in another retirement account you can’t really touch until you’re 59.5. It’ll be nice to have then, but not life-changing.

    B. Your parents set money aside in their brokerage accounts anticipating they’d one day help out when it was needed. They each gift you $19,000 ($38,000) every year for the next five years to help cover the cost. (There are all kinds of ways to handle how this is done to optimize for taxes. That will be the topic of a future article).

    Having liquid optionality is highly underrated.

    When I Would Use a Trump Account

    I’m not fundamentally against Trump Accounts. There are scenarios where I would recommend or use them for our kids.

    You qualify for free money.

    By all means open an account if your’re being offered something for nothing. I can’t think of any reasons not to do these:

    • Your child was born between Jan 1, 2025 and Dec 31, 2028 and they qualify for the $1,000 government pilot contribution. (Our kids don’t qualify)
    • Your employer is planning to offer funding as part of their perks. (I am my employer)

    You’ve maxed out your other options. 

    This would be a good problem to have. 529 is fully funded or on its way to being funded. You’re maxing your own 401k, IRA, and HSA contributions. Etc. Go ahead and fund the accounts, they are one of the few ways to get tax-deferred growth on your money. (We have a ways to go on our 529)

    Know Your Tools

    Take a step back and think about how you want to set your kids up for the future because there are all kinds of tax and planning quirks to be aware of or take advantage of depending on your goals. 

    Remember, Trump Accounts are just one tool in a wide array of options to help set your child up for their future. As with all tools, it helps to understand the mechanics of how they work relative to others and what your goal is. 

    If you’re thinking about your children’s future, check out our other posts:

    Feel free to reach out to me directly if you want a second opinion on financial planning for your children.

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
    [email protected]

    Most financial advice is generic. Mine isn’t. Get an email every other week with real strategies and stories from my work with mid-career professionals. Free, no paywall.

    Kangpan & Co. is a flat-fee financial advisory firm specializing in helping mid-career professionals navigate the career, family, and financial tradeoffs that come with this stage of life. This content is for educational purposes only and is not financial, legal, or tax advice. Consult a licensed advisor for help with your individual situation. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions discussed in our content. Past performance is no guarantee of future results.

    1. Education Data Initiative, Average Cost of College & Tuition, last updated 2026-02-14
    2. CDC, Mortality in the United State 2024

  • Can You Afford to Take a Pay Cut for a Job You Love?

    Summary

    It’s common to start questioning whether you’re on the right career track after years climbing the ladder once you have a family. You know yourself better and have different priorities. You see a dream job you want to take that aligns more to your values, has better hours, but less pay. How do you know when it’s the right move for you personally? How do you make it work financially? In this article I talk about:

    • How I knew it was time for me to leave the corporate world
    • An example based on real-world work I do with clients to figure out how to make the numbers work through cost reduction, passive income, and when starting a second act, and doing a retirement reality check

    How I knew it was time for me to leave the corporate world

    I missed my daughter’s first steps because I was in meetings I don’t even remember.

    It didn’t feel like a big deal at the time. But years later I still remember the moment Sheila texted to say it was happening… and not one thing about the meetings that day.

    We knew it was going to happen soon. But it felt silly to work from home for the week just to try and be there for the moment. As a C-level exec in the company, I technically had the flexibility to do it. But it didn’t feel like a good enough reason to skip the company’s mandatory in-office policy at the time.

    This was just one of hundreds of small sacrifices I made to put career in front of life and family.

    This was also a key moment that shaped my Time Value of Life philosophy that I wrote about last time.

    I sat through thousands of meetings during my 16 years in the corporate world. Most of them were about nothing in particular. Many were just minor variations on the same thing over and over. I could have missed hundreds of these and my life and career would have been no different.

    But missing out on my daughter’s first steps was literally a once in a lifetime event.

    Nathan Kangpan with his daughter at the Ambler Music Festival
    Hanging out together at the Ambler, PA Music Festival. I’ll never regret trading endless corporate meetings for more everyday moments with the fam.

    A lot of people I talk to have similar experiences and feelings about their evolving relationship between career and family. They’re looking for a way to balance more evenly between earning and living.

    They come to me because they feel trapped in their corporate careers. They want to take a different job they feel more passionate about or be able to spend more time with their families but are worried they can’t afford to take the pay cut.  

    They often have more financial flexibility than they realize. 

    Three strategies to bridge an income gap when starting a second act

    Here’s a simplified example of the kind of conversation I have with people in this situation.

    • Jim and Sarah are both 38 and have two young kids. They’re like you and me. They live in the suburbs of a major city, shop weekly at Costco, hang out at the local brewery with their kids and friends on the weekend, etc.
    • Their total yearly spend across their mortgage, preschool, and living expenses is $200k.
    • Jim earns $80k a year after taxes at a small, independent marketing firm and loves his job.
    • Sarah is at a big law firm and clears $300k a year after taxes and maxes her 401k each year. But she travels all the time and is burnt out. She wants to go in-house at a local company where she can feel more ownership over the impact she has each day and be home more with the family. 
    • Unfortunately, the company will only pay her $90k a year after taxes. 

    A quick mental calculation shows Sarah’s $90k + Jim’s $80k is less than their $200k in living expenses. 

    The $30k income gap between dream and reality.

    Sarah really wants to take the job but the $30k shortfall is far from a rounding error. She feels like she can’t take the job without majorly reducing the family’s quality of life. She’s also worried about risking their retirement because there’s no room in this budget for 401k contributions.

    So we sit down together and look at the bigger picture. 

    Beyond their income, they have $750k in retirement accounts already and another $700k in their brokerage account, primarily invested in an S&P 500 index fund. 

    We identify three areas together that will help Sarah take her dream job and spend more time with her kids. 

    Costs: We map out all their costs and find there are $6k a year in convenience expenses that we could easily eliminate if Sarah is working more reasonable hours and traveling less for work. These convenience expenses are common in families with busy professionals and include frequent DoorDash orders, last minute childcare, etc. 

    Investment Income: Instead of keeping all $700k of their brokerage account invested in the S&P 500 index fund, we move part of the portfolio towards a diversified income strategy that aims to cover the $24k a year remaining expenses. We do this through a mix of dividend stocks, private real estate funds, and bonds. 

    Retirement: We model out how much their retirement accounts could be worth in the future if, in the worst case, they never contribute another dollar. $750k growing at 8% a year for 30 years = $7.5 million by the time Sarah and Jim expect to retire. We find this is more than enough to cover their expected living costs in retirement. This analysis helps Sarah realize putting more into retirement at this point is a nice to have, not a must have.

    This is just one of many ways to create a bridge from a high-paying corporate job that no longer fits who you are with that dream second act. One of the reasons I got into financial advisory is because I enjoy talking about investments and the markets. But I’ve since found the most rewarding projects I take on are the ones where a few hours of financial engineering helps someone take that dream job or step back for awhile to spend more time with their kids while they’re young.

    It’s a path I know well. I left my C-level corporate job for a second act that felt more meaningful professionally and more rewarding personally. Missing my daughter’s first steps was a valuable lesson. It’s one I only had to be taught once. I got to see my son take his.

    If you liked this piece, check out:

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
    [email protected]

    Most financial advice is generic. Mine isn’t. Get an email every other week with real strategies and stories from my work with mid-career professionals. Free, no paywall.

    Kangpan & Co. is a flat-fee financial advisory firm specializing in helping mid-career professionals navigate the career, family, and financial tradeoffs that come with this stage of life. This content is for educational purposes only and is not financial, legal, or tax advice. Consult a licensed advisor for help with your individual situation. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions discussed in our content. Past performance is no guarantee of future results.

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor

    Kangpan & Co. is a fee-only, registered investment advisor specializing in helping mid-career professional navigate the work, life, and financial tradeoffs that define their 30s and 40s.

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  • The Time Value of Your Life

    Conventional financial advice is built on a single insight: time multiplies money. The longer you’re invested, the more your money is worth in the future. Defer gratification now, maximize the number later. 

    Time has the opposite effect on your life. The more time that passes, the exponentially less time you have left. 

    Living a balanced life means ensuring you are properly weighing the time value of all your decisions. 

    The Time Value of Your Money

    Time is the cheat code to wealth. 

    A dollar invested at 8% a year when you’re 20 could grow to $31.92 by the time you’re 65. Time does all the work for you. 

    But that same dollar invested when you’re 50 would only grow to $3.17 by the time you’re 65 at that same 8%.

    Your invested dollar is worth exponentially more with each passing year. The goal is to start early and let your investments compound. This is known as the Time Value of Money and is one of the first things taught in Finance 101 courses.

    The Time Value of Your Life

    The Time Value of Your Life moves in the opposing direction as the Time Value of Your Money. It decays exponentially.

    Let’s say you’ll live to 80. 

    When you are five year old, you still have 75 years left on the clock. The next year of your life represents only 1.3% of your remaining life (1 divided by 75 remaining years). Time stretches out infinitely with all of life’s wonderful experiences still ahead of you.

    At 75, you have only five years left on the clock. The next year of your life represents 20% of your remaining life (1 divided by 5 remaining years). 

    And it’s not just time on the clock that’s exponentially running out. Life’s experiences have a rapidly decreasing shelf life. 

    At 20, you’ll have 60 years to look back on the memories from your summer road trip that you take with your best friends between sophomore and junior year. As Bill Perkins wrote about in Die With Zero, early experiences pay memory dividends throughout the rest of your life. 

    At 75? You have just five years to appreciate any new experiences or memories you make.

    This exponentially decreasing life to time relationship is what I call The Time Value of Life. It is the inverse of the Time Value of Money

    The Tradeoffs Between Time, Life, and Money

    Most conventional financial plans and advice are built entirely around the Time Value of Money. Save more when you’re young. Delay gratification. Get a high score at the end. 

    What they don’t account for is that every year you spend waiting to live the life you want is a year with a quantifiable and diminishing value on the other side of the equation. 

    The goal of life is to ensure you make the proper tradeoffs between the Time Value of Your Life and the Time Value of Your Money

    Understanding this duality can help you think through many of life’s important decisions. Let’s look at your career through these two tradeoffs.

    The Time Value of Your Career

    Let’s say you just graduated and are 22. You plan to work until 60. 

    You start the “career game” with 38 total working years. Your first year represents 2.6% of your remaining career (1 divided by 38 remaining years). You have zero net worth but at least your parents paid for college so you have no debt.

    Fast forward a bit through a few years of meetings, conferences, and late night deck updates. You’re now 40. You’re an SVP at a large company and have $2m saved across your retirement and brokerage accounts. And you’re able to put away an additional $150k a year.

    But you’re quietly unhappy. You’ve been thinking more and more about whether you’re on the right path. You secretly wonder if the career track that you fell into at 22 still represents who you’ve become decades later. 

    You’ve got a dream in the back of your mind. You want to start something of your own. Do work that matters and spend more time with your kids who are growing up way too fast.  

    You really want to take that leap but you’re making good money now and want to save up just a bit more before you leave the corporate world. So you wait a year. Then another year. Suddenly five years have gone by and you just lost 25% of your remaining career to indecision and the fear you may not have enough for retirement. 

    Five years of Sunday evenings wondering what might have been. Five years of being the person who almost did it. And the clock is running out faster and faster.

    What you didn’t account for was that your $2m invested at 8% a year when you were 40 could be worth $9.3m by the time you retired at 60. Even if you never contributed another dollar to retirement. 

    You traded 25% of your remaining career years for money you didn’t even need.

    Balance The Equations

    These are the kinds of tradeoffs people are making between the Time Value of Life and the Time Value of Money. 

    The conventional financial plan optimizes for the Time Value of Money. It does its job perfectly. What it doesn’t account for is what you’re giving up on the other side of the equation. 

    Your money has a time value. So does your life. The financial plan that ignores one of them isn’t complete.

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
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  • When Should You Sell a Concentrated Stock Position?

    Let me know if this sounds familiar. You’ve watched a position grow from a small bet into a significant chunk of your net worth. Now you’re not sure what to do.

    You might leave a fortune on the table if you sell.

    But you might lose everything you’ve built if you keep holding. 

    This is one of the most common scenarios I discuss with people. Stock that’s built up through RSUs, an early position in Bitcoin, or a bet made on a Mag 7 years back. This position now accounts for a significant portion of this person’s wealth and they’re not sure what to do next.

    Here’s how I talk people through this situation. 

    Before thinking about any further upside scenarios, think about the downside. 

    What would happen if this position went to zero?

    Are your financial goals dependent on this position not going to zero? If yes, that’s a sign your concentration risk is real, not theoretical. 

    Here are three scenarios when you should consider selling down some of your position. We’ll ignore tax implications for now in each of these to keep the examples simple.

    You’ve Won the Game

    If this position is worth so much that you could comfortably live off the proceeds for the rest of your life, you’ve already won the game. You don’t need to go for the highest score possible.

    How much is enough to live off?

    The 4% rule is imperfect but a reasonable starting benchmark.

    Let’s say you have $10m in vested RSUs which make up the bulk of your net worth. Your current living expenses are $300k a year (3% of your assets). 

    Congratulations, you are financially independent.

    You could sell out $7.5m of your vested RSUs and diversify it to lock your future in ($300k a year in spending needs divided by 4%). Then keep your other $2.5m invested if you still believe in the company’s future.

    You take your winnings off the table while keeping your upside open.

    Your Financial Plan Now Depends on This Position

    Even if you haven’t reached the point where your assets can fully support your lifestyle, your position may have accelerated your timeline by decades. 

    Let’s say you’re 40 and you have $6m in a crypto asset thanks to your foresight to invest a decade ago. 

    You have another $1m in traditional retirement accounts. You put away an additional $200k a year from your job and your goal is to get to $8m total net worth before you retire from the corporate world. 

    If you diversify out of your crypto position today into a more conservative mix of assets returning 7% a year, you will reach your goal after ~1.5 more years of work.

    Sure, your crypto position could catapult up in the next two months and help you reach your goal faster. But what if it goes to zero? Your timeline to retirement just extended by decades.

    There is an asymmetric risk here in continuing to stay so heavily concentrated.

    Your Life Directly Benefits From Selling

    It’s important to think about the present value of your life, not just the future value of your assets.

    The tradeoffs you’re evaluating are not always about pure financial optimization. 

    For example, you and your spouse might be expecting your first child together later this year and would like to move into your dream home to build lifetime family memories. 

    You’ve been steadily saving cash for a down payment but that still need another three years to get to the number. Meanwhile, you have your down payment sitting right there in vested options that you could exercise today and make your dream life a reality three years earlier. 

    Sure, those options could be worth hundreds of thousands more years from now if you keep holding until expiration. 

    But is that what you want? An extra two hundred thousand ten years from now when it won’t make much of a difference in exchange for three years of lost family memories while you’re in the prime of your life?

    The right answer to a concentrated position isn’t always the one that maximizes expected value. Sometimes it’s the one that makes the life you actually want to live possible three years earlier. 

    I wrote about this in more detail in this piece.

    What About Taxes?

    The tax implications of selling a concentrated position are significant and worth their own deep dive. Especially for ISOs, RSUs, and crypto where the treatment differs meaningfully. 

    I’ll write more about minimizing taxes when selling out of a concentrated position in a future piece. Subscribe to follow along.

    Or feel free to reach out if you’re working through your own situation. I love hearing from readers.

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
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    This content is for educational purposes only and is not investment, tax, or legal advice. No post is an endorsement of any particular strategy or security. We do not receive any direct payments or commissions for securities discussed in our posts. Private funds are generally available only to ‘Accredited Investors’ as defined by the SEC. The Personal Endowment is a conceptual investment framework customized to each client and does not represent a specific fund or guaranteed outcome. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions in securities discussed in posts. Speak with a licensed tax, legal, or financial advisor before making any changes to your investments or financial strategies. Past performance is no guarantee of future returns. Investing involves risk including the loss of capital.

  • Why I Paid Cash for a House When Every Spreadsheet Said Not To

    Most financial advice assumes people are machines making objectively optimized decisions.

    They aren’t. The best financial decisions I’ve ever made looked suboptimal on a spreadsheet. 

    When our company got acquired back in 2017, I ended up with significant assets for the first time.

    I decided to use some of that money to buy a modest house in Beacon, NY. I bought it outright. No mortgage.

    Any simple financial analysis would have said paying all cash for property was leaving money on the table. Buying the home with a mortgage would have allowed me to keep the difference invested in the markets. This could have resulted in tens of thousands more in net worth over the course of decades. 

    I was fully aware of the financial tradeoffs. 

    But what I wanted psychologically and emotionally from the purchase outweighed what the spreadsheets said.

    I had been living in NYC in tiny apartments for more than a decade at this point. I wanted to evolve my lifestyle. I wanted space and the ability to access nature by train whenever I felt like it.

    I had also been renting my entire adult life until this point. I wanted a portion of my assets locked into something that was mine no matter what happened to my job or to the markets. 

    Sheila had also just moved in with me and I wanted to start building a life with her. 

    Spending the next few years going up to Beacon gave us both experiences we’ll look back on fondly for the rest of our lives. It was exactly what we both needed at the time. 

    The price of something is not synonymous with its value. I think I underpaid for that home.

    A man and woman posing for a selfie at a scenic overlook, with a lush green landscape and river in the background.
    First hike up Mt. Beacon in 2018. Worth every dollar the spreadsheet said I was leaving on the table.

    Nearly every client who comes to me with a major decision is navigating both the financial and emotional tradeoffs of the options they’re facing. Here’s a recent example. 

    I’m working with a family saving up for their ultimate dream home.

    The cash they were able to put away each month meant saving up for that down payment could have taken seven or more years. That’s seven years of forgone memories and experiences. 

    One of them works for a Fortune 500 and had sizable amount of vested company stock options. The expiration date was still years in the future. The company’s stock had rocketed up in the past year and a huge chunk of their down-payment could be realized if they exercised their options. 

    Conventional financial models suggested continuing to hold the options would maximize their net worth ten years from now. We talked it through and modeled the potential tradeoffs and it was a no-brainer.

    The certainty of locking in their down payment and bringing their dream up by five years was worth more than any theoretical money left on the table. Five additional years of a dream life they could be living now vs. a higher net worth decades in the future that would have only a marginal impact on their future selves.

    Five years of living in their dream home is not a line item on a spreadsheet. Neither were the years Sheila and I spent going up to Beacon. The point was never financial optimization. 

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
    Kangpan & Co.

    Kangpan & Co. is a fee-only, registered investment advisor specializing in helping people live off diversified portfolio income.

    This content is for educational purposes only and is not investment, tax, or legal advice. No post is an endorsement of any particular strategy or security. We do not receive any direct payments or commissions for securities discussed in our posts. Private funds are generally available only to ‘Accredited Investors’ as defined by the SEC. The Personal Endowment is a conceptual investment framework customized to each client and does not represent a specific fund or guaranteed outcome. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions in securities discussed in posts. Speak with a licensed tax, legal, or financial advisor before making any changes to your investments or financial strategies. Past performance is no guarantee of future returns. Investing involves risk including the loss of capital.

  • Permission to Spend

    I’ve realized over the past year I don’t think about portfolios the way most people do. 

    I view portfolios as infrastructure that enables life to be lived intentionally. 

    I think a lot about what the point of investing is. And I spend a lot of time talking to people about what they want their portfolios to make possible for them. The most important framing has nothing to do with investing. It’s: 

    What is the life I want to live? 

    When I was in my 20s, I thought what I wanted was to end the game with the largest number possible.

    But over the years I’ve realized the point isn’t to die with the largest portfolio but to live a life that I can reflect back on and feel was truly enjoyable along the way. 

    A Personal Endowment is the best metaphor for what I’m trying to build. I want a portfolio that pays a steadily increasing income year over year that supports the life our family wants to live. 

    I am a product of two first-generation immigrants. Frugality and intentional spending were highly valued in our household. It is hard for me to “enjoy” spending money. I get much more of a thrill out of finding a good deal than in paying for an unnecessary luxury.

    This mindset helped me “retire” from a C-level career before 40. But it also meant years of depriving myself of vacations, concerts, and other experiences that I’ve come to regret.

    The forced cashflow that comes from the diversified income portfolio we live off has been a strong mechanism for enjoying life more with each year. It’s a number that is meant to be spent in order to ensure I don’t look back on missed experiences or the opportunities to treat the people I love.

    It’s become a system specifically designed to prevent my frugality and accumulation instinct from consuming the enjoyment that financial independence was supposed to enable. 

    What is it like living off income from a portfolio?

    Here’s what this looks like in our actual day to day life.

    I start each year by projecting out the cashflows our portfolios are expected to generate which forms our yearly budget. 

    As the year progresses, those cashflows have steadily increased (so far). 

    By September, I start paying out a portion of that excess cashflow to ourselves as a monthly bonus.

    During the holidays we’ll take some more of that excess cashflow and donate to causes we care about and then treat ourselves to a nice gift. Something we wouldn’t normally buy ourselves but we know we’d enjoy. This past year it was a new Switch for me and a nice pair of earrings for Sheila.

    When the new year starts, the budgets ratchet up as the cashflows increase. As the budgets increase, I try to make sure we’re intentionally setting aside funds to enjoy life together. 

    This year it was an extra $7,000 for vacations which we spent going to Sarasota in the winter months.

    My parents optimized for security. I spent years optimizing for financial independence. Now the forced cashflow from my income portfolio is optimizing for something neither of us quite had: the permission to actually enjoy what we built. 

    The financial independence I was building would solve life’s money problem. But the psychology that got me there would have prevented me from actually living it. 

    Nathan
    Founder & Lead Advisor
    Kangpan & Co.

    Kangpan & Co. is a fee-only, registered investment advisor specializing in helping people live off diversified portfolio income.

    This content is for educational purposes only and is not investment, tax, or legal advice. No post is an endorsement of any particular strategy or security. We do not receive any direct payments or commissions for securities discussed in our posts. Private funds are generally available only to ‘Accredited Investors’ as defined by the SEC. The Personal Endowment is a conceptual investment framework customized to each client and does not represent a specific fund or guaranteed outcome. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions in securities discussed in posts. Speak with a licensed tax, legal, or financial advisor before making any changes to your investments or financial strategies. Past performance is no guarantee of future returns. Investing involves risk including the loss of capital.

  • What Worked: 9 Things That Made Me Financially Independent Before 40

    I didn’t feel relief the morning I realized I had enough money to leave my corporate job. I felt terrified. My spreadsheet said I was ready. Every number I had been tracking confirmed it. I didn’t know what to do. 

    I started the spreadsheet in 2016. Net worth in one column. Expenses in another. Portfolio income in the third. I was in my late 20s and had decided my goal was to become financially independent before 40 by having my portfolio generate enough income to eliminate my need for a salary. 

    I achieved that goal at 38 when I resigned from my C-level corporate career to start a more intentional second act.

    Here’s what helped me get there. 

    Ignoring traditional retirement calculators

    Most retirement calculators I’ve come across focus on how long it will take for your portfolio to match your current income in retirement. I disagree with this framing. The goal isn’t to match the income you’re making, it’s to cover your costs. 

    Relying on retirement calculators that focus on meeting your salary artificially extends the amount of time you need to work before you’re able to retire. This is especially true for high achievers where income rapidly outpaces your underlying living expenses. Trying to match that income becomes a moving target.

    Financial independence became a simple calculation for me.

    When the income I could generate from my portfolio reliably exceeded my underlying expenses, I knew I was ready to go.  

    Closely tracking expenses against portfolio income every month

    I’ve sat down every month for the past decade to calculate our net worth, the income we generate from our assets, and our expenses. For expenses, I manually go line by line in my spreadsheet through our credit card and checking statements, categorizing everything against the budgets laid out at the beginning of the year. 

    I am well aware I can use technology to do this but the act of going line by line makes our spending much more tangible. I also think more clearly about whether certain expenses were worth it. Like that ongoing subscription to YouTube Premium (the answer has been yes for 70+ months). 

    Regularly examining our costs prevented unnecessary lifestyle inflation that would have delayed the timeline to leaving my corporate career. 

    Plus the act of watching portfolio income gradually meet and then exceed expenses was highly motivating. It was like steadily leveling up in a video game month after month.

    Viewing costs in terms of portfolio income

    As I wrote about recently, the more I went through my monthly planning process, the more I started thinking about everything in terms of portfolio income rather than salary.

    The first question I asked about any major purchase wasn’t whether we could afford it based on my corporate salary. It was whether we could afford it based on income generated by our portfolio. The difference between those two calculations is significant when you’re trying to leave the corporate world.

    In 2020 our realtor tried to convince us to look at homes $300,000 above the price we’d decided on. His logic was that mortgage rates were so low the extra $1,000 a month was barely noticeable on a C-level salary. He was right about the salary math.

    But I wasn’t thinking about the salary. Here’s how that extra $1,000 a month actually looked to me.

    $12,000 a year in additional mortgage payments. Another $300,000 I’d need to build in my portfolio to cover it at a 4% income yield. Potentially another year of working to get there.

    We bought the house we originally planned to buy.

    It’s a home Ryan Serhant isn’t about to come knocking on to film a video tour. I’d call it reasonable luxury rather than egregious ostentation. We love it.

    The same logic applied to the school district we chose. Picking a strong public school meant we wouldn’t need to pay for private school. The difference between $8,000 a year in school taxes and $60,000 a year in private school tuition for two kids represents roughly $1.25 million in additional portfolio value I would have needed to build. That meant potentially three to four more years of corporate work.

    You don’t have to be Spartan about everything. The small stuff barely moves the needle. But the large fixed costs like housing, cars, and schools are the decisions that significantly impact your timeline to financial independence. Getting those right is worth more than a decade of optimizing everything else.

    Finding a good accountant early on

    My taxes were straight forward for the first decade or so of my career. Up through my late 20s, I was renting in NY, had a single W2 income, a 401k, and a modest taxable brokerage account. Standard tax software was good enough for handling this.

    It was 2018 when things got more complicated. This was the year we sold our company and I had a liquidity event I had to manage. My investments started producing meaningful income and I was suddenly in higher tax brackets where finding ways offset income became significantly more valuable. 

    I started working with an accountant who more than justified their ongoing yearly fee based on just the estimated tax penalties they helped me avoid in 2018. 

    Working with an accountant also changed my mindset regarding taxes from something I passively calculate at the end of each year to something that I can actively manage. Which led me to…

    Studying tax optimization

    I believe in paying the taxes I owe. But I don’t think it’s necessary to leave the IRS a tip. 

    The accountants have been good at helping me understand how to avoid mistakes in the future based on mistakes I made in the past. They are not as helpful with proactive tax mitigation within the year or minimizing taxes years from now.

    So I started learning more about how I could actively manage my taxes throughout the year. I know most people like to avoid thinking about taxes as much as possible but the 10-15 hours a year I spent reading about and modeling different tax strategies has likely saved tens of thousands in taxes over the years (and possibly hundreds of thousands compounded). 

    The optimizations I made to my approach ranged from taking advantage of credits for things we were going to do anyway like replacing the rusting water heaters that came with our home to implementing portfolio strategies like tax location and gain / loss harvesting.

    The ROI from understanding and proactively managing tax strategies has been significant and immediate. The savings funneled directly back into reducing the timeline to reach financial independence.

    Transitioning to an income-centric investing strategy 

    One of my biggest fears about leaving my corporate job was timing.

    What if the market collapsed in the first couple years after I left? The traditional retirement playbook of accumulating a large portfolio and then withdrawing 4% annually sounds reasonable until you think through what can actually happen in that scenario.

    You need to sell assets to fund your life. Those assets have just dropped 30%-40%  in value. You’re selling significantly more shares than you planned to cover the same expenses. And this can go on for years. The markets recover eventually but you’ve permanently impaired your portfolio in the process.

    This is known as sequence of returns risk and it’s one of the main reasons people who retire into a bear market never fully recover financially even if the market eventually does.

    I wanted to solve for this.

    So I built a portfolio designed to generate income from multiple sources rather than rely on selling shares to cover my expenses. The S&P 500 index was the right tool for growing wealth while I was accumulating. But I needed a different set of tools for a different job. Blue chip companies with long track records of paying steadily increasing dividends. Apartments around the country generating rental income. Power plants with contracted cash flows tied to inflation.

    The insight that changed everything for me was simple. 

    I could live off income. I can’t live off a price.

    Price is what the market says my assets are worth today. Income is what my assets actually pay me.

    The markets can drop 40% but, as 2008 and 2022 demonstrated, the rent from a well-located property with high quality tenants still gets collected. The power plant still gets paid to put electricity into the grid. The dividends from a company with 25 consecutive years of steady dividend growth still arrive.  

    The income keeps coming regardless of what the price of the underlying asset is doing on any given Tuesday.

    This isn’t the same as being immune to economic stress. A severe enough recession can affect anything. But the income-centric portfolio is designed to keep funding my life through the conditions that would devastate a withdrawal-based approach.

    The result has been exactly what I was hoping for. The payments from my income assets have come in steadily and grown each year regardless of what has been happening in the markets. We pay our bills, go out to nice family dinners, and there’s something left over to reinvest. The anxiety of watching a portfolio value fluctuate while wondering if it will last has been replaced by watching an income line that keeps growing.

    The market can do whatever it wants. The income arrives anyway.

    Focusing on a career I enjoyed

    I want to be careful about how I frame this one because it can easily sound like the kind of thing people say when they’ve been lucky.

    But here’s what I actually observed over nearly two decades in the corporate world.

    I genuinely liked what I did. Analyzing the problems facing large companies and then solving them through data, creativity, and technology. There was a lot of intellectual variety. Every client was in a different industry, every problem had a different shape. I also liked the people I worked with. I liked getting better at my job.

    That enjoyment had a specific and compounding effect on my timeline to financial independence that went beyond just earning a higher salary.

    When you enjoy your work you do more of it voluntarily. You read about it, think about it, get curious about adjacent problems. You develop genuine expertise rather than adequate competence.

    That expertise compounds into career opportunities that going through the motions doesn’t produce. This difference may be small at first but grows dramatically over a decade in terms of compensation and fond memories.

    I think if I had been doing work I didn’t enjoy the entire time I would have burned out or plateaued in middle management. Either outcome would have added years to my timelines.

    Work you enjoy is one of the most underrated variables in how quickly you can reach financial independence. Not because of the salary but because of what sustained engagement does to your trajectory over time.

    Choosing career paths with asymmetric upside

    I mentioned a liquidity event earlier. Here’s more detail on how I got there and how it impacted my journey to financial independence.

    It was 2012. I had spent the past four years in consulting and I was ready for something different. I was being recruited for a couple different Director level jobs.

    One was a role with a Fortune 500 company. Great name, slightly higher compensation, perfect resume builder, but no significant upside potential. The work would be routine and bureaucratic. This was the safe option on paper and the one that would pay $10-20k a year more in salary. 

    The other was where I went. An advertising agency that just started going two months earlier that no one had heard of where I would have less pay and less “prestige”. But, I would have a very interesting role. I would be part of the management team and have a more direct impact on the direction of the firm. And I’d get a modest amount of equity that could be worth something one day.

    I remember thinking the worst case was if the agency didn’t work then I would have spent a few years doing something I enjoyed doing anyway. My bank account might have $40-50k less in savings than if I had chosen the big name company. But the best case was we would knock it out of the park and the equity would be worth something one day. The downside was capped, the upside was significant. 

    We sold the company six years after I joined.

    Now, luck undoubtedly played a role in all this. Most small businesses fail. When I made my decision to join the advertising company, there was no way to tell how successful we would be.

    But the important thing was that the potential was there, along with the equity that would mean more direct participation in that success. There was no potential for that kind of asymmetric payoff in the Fortune 500 company.

    This liquidity event impacted my financial independence journey in two unexpected ways. 

    The first is that it pulled up my original timeline to financial independence by about five years. The spreadsheet and targets I had been tracking against didn’t assume a liquidity event. I don’t like to include positive outlier events in my baseline forecasting. If they happen, great. If not, my original strategies that are more firmly in my control are still on track.

    Second, I was still enjoying my role with the company when this happened and felt I hadn’t accomplished the things I wanted to yet within my first career. So instead of leaving my job years ahead of schedule, the impact of the acquisition was more an unexpected improvement to the quality of life I had been modeling. The portfolio we were building would now be able to support a slightly nicer home and a couple more family vacations each year.

    The point isn’t to bet on startups. It’s to make sure that when you’re choosing between two paths, at least one of them has genuine upside worth reaching for. 

    Building a shared life 

    This last piece is the most important one.

    When I first started working towards financial independence it was just me. I hadn’t met Sheila yet. I didn’t have kids. My spreadsheet hadn’t accounted for how life would (positively) evolve over the years.

    As we started planning for kids, Sheila wanted to prioritize raising our children over continuing her career in advertising. That meant I would need to work a couple more years than I was planning to so the portfolio could cover her lost income.

    We both knew what we were trading. I would spend a bit more time in a corporate job in exchange for something we both wanted more, the ability to show up for each other and our kids during all of life’s key moments.

    We agreed early on to work towards financial independence first and improve our lifestyle after. So we kept our spending in check through those final years. We’re not miserly — we like nice things. But the Porsche in my garage right now looks a lot more like a 2015 Jeep Wrangler. We AirBnB our beach vacations rather than owning a beach house.

    The steadily growing income from the way our portfolios are designed will cover these things in the years to come. In exchange, the joy and closeness we’ve had as a family fortunate enough to spend so much intentional time together were more than worth it.

    So, was it worth it?

    As I reflect on the years spent working towards and then achieving financial independence, I’ve come to realize something that surprised me.

    Financial independence is not a destination. It’s a transition point.

    I had spent years focused on what I didn’t want anymore. The compromises that come with a corporate career. The clients you work with because you have to rather than because you want to. The slow accumulation of days that no longer feel like yours.

    What I hadn’t fully anticipated was what the transition would open up.

    The best way I can put it is that financial independence allows me to think about the world the way I did when I was a senior in high school. Suddenly the possibilities seem endless again.

    In a follow-up post I’ll share the things that kept me from getting here faster and what I wish someone had told me earlier about working towards financial independence.

    If any of this resonated with your own situation, I’d genuinely love to hear about it.

    Nathan
    Founder, Kangpan & Co.

    Kangpan & Co. is a fee-only, registered investment advisor specializing in helping people live off diversified portfolio income.

    This content is for educational purposes only and is not investment, tax, or legal advice. No post is an endorsement of any particular strategy or security. We do not receive any direct payments or commissions for securities discussed in our posts. Private funds are generally available only to ‘Accredited Investors’ as defined by the SEC. The Personal Endowment is a conceptual investment framework customized to each client and does not represent a specific fund or guaranteed outcome. Employees and clients of Kangpan & Co. may hold positions in securities discussed in posts. Speak with a licensed tax, legal, or financial advisor before making any changes to your investments or financial strategies. Past performance is no guarantee of future returns. Investing involves risk including the loss of capital.